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Men feel anxious before approaching a woman , because they are afraid of awkward silence, even more than of potential rejection. Your goal is to get her to invest an equal or greater amount of effort into the conversation because the more invested she is in your conversation the more invested she is going to be in your interaction. All great seducers understand this. One important thing before we start: more important than what do you speak, is how you speak.
No matter what subject you choose, lways keep it fun and playful, trying to make her laugh, without trying too hard. Easier said, than done, I know. This is why you need a few conversational topics that are low effort and still engaging to get things started.
Getting a woman talking about her favorite books, movies, music or art is a great way to do so. The trick here, however, is to not ask for too little. Ask her for two songs from her favorite band that she thinks you should listen to and ask her what those two songs mean to her. I swear to God, relationship related topics are like conversational crack for most women. And then ask your date to tell you her version. Once she gets the hang of it to start getting more and more imaginative and ridiculous with your stories. I hate conversations that drab and uninteresting.
The key here, again, is to ask for more than just an impersonal list of travel destinations. Or ask her where she would go if she could disappear for an entire month without having to worry about her work or any other responsibilities. These types of conversations will get her imagination firing on overdrive and put her in an uplifted emotional state; both feelings which she will start associating with you. I disagree. To do this you need to find out things about her that are unique and appreciate them.
Being curious about women can ificantly improve your dating life! Does she have a fashion sense that you hardly ever get to see on other women? Let her know that you notice these things and ask her about them. And when she tells you these stories let her know that you find these things attractive about her. Do you remember the last time someone showed genuine interest in your dreams and planning your goals? You see, sometimes being a great conversationalist is like learning to become a mirror.
Asking about her dreams and goals can teach you so much about her personality. You can also talk about passions and hobbies. It can be whatever! From adventurous sports you do or would like to try, like surfing, hiking some spectacular mountains through, playing music or playing board games.
The point is to learn to develop a feel for what topics get them excited and to learn to steer the conversation towards those topics. Patrick is a Berlin-based dating advisor, motivational speaker, a huge fitness and vegan diet enthusiast and the main editor at Wingman Magazine, specialised in men's health. His ultimate goal is to share with men around the world his passion for self-development and to help them to become the greatest version of themselves.
He believes a healthy body and successful social interactions are two main keys to happiness. Sex Dating Growth Health Other. Relationships I swear to God, relationship related topics are like conversational crack for most women. Her Passions, Her Dreams and Her Goals Do you remember the last time someone showed genuine interest in your dreams and planning your goals?
About the author Patrick Banks.What topics to talk about with a girl you like
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